Thursday, November 24, 2016

It's All About Continuity

            A survey of the parasha reveals that it deals with five topics:
the death and burial of Sarah
Eliezer’s mission to find a wife for Isaac;
the sons of Abraham’s concubines and their being sent away;
the death and burial of Abraham;
a list of the descendants of Ishmael.
            The common theme which connects all of these topics is continuity.
            Respect for ancestors, as demonstrated by Abraham’s concern for the proper burial of Sarah, is a necessary element of continuity. One who does not respect or learn from his forebears divorces the present from the past and thereby jeopardizes the future.
            Following Sarah’s death, it is only natural that continuity requires finding a suitable wife for Isaac.
            Eliezer’s criterion for recognizing the woman destined for his master’s son is an act of kindness:
Let it then be that the maiden to whom I shall say: please lower your      pitcher so I may drink; and she shall say: drink and I will give your camels drink also; she is the one you have appointed for Your servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that You have shown kindness to my master.                          Genesis 24: 14
            It is instructive that the criterion for identifying she who is worthy of continuing Sarah’s path is not a religious act, but one of interpersonal relations. Not the length of Rebecca’s sleeves, not eating only glatt, but being kind to a stranger demonstrates her worthiness.
            Abraham’s sending away the sons of his concubines represents the painful aspect of guaranteeing continuity. Abraham, who brought strangers to accept monotheism, and brought them under the wings of the Shechina was unsuccessful with his own children. He had to satisfy himself with giving the sons of the concubines presents and sending them off so that his line will continue through Isaac.
            As far as Abraham’s burial, it is noteworthy that the verses again specifically mention his purchase of Ma’arat haMachpelah. As my brother commented, it is an eternal concrete reminder of his continuity for all the generations that followed Abraham who have renewed their connection to our ancestors and their teachings by visiting or even remembering Ma'arat haMachpelah.

            The parasha ends with the list of Ishmael’s descendants. This too can be seen as being related to Abraham’s continuity specifically through Isaac. It is certainly not by chance that the list of Ishmael’s sons is composed of twelve names. Possibly the intention is to present this list of twelve names against the twelve grandsons of Isaac. Perhaps there is even an implied challenge. The Twelve Tribes are not the only group of twelve in God’s sight.  Maybe it is a reminder to not take our status for granted. 

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